You've been looking for a therapist or guide who won't treat your polyamorous or ENM relationships as the problem to be solved. Someone who understands that ethical non-monogamy is a valid, intentional way of loving — and that navigating it well sometimes means getting real support from someone who actually lives it.
You don't have to defend your relationship structure here.
Find a poly-friendly therapist who actually gets it
POLYAMORY & ENM THERAPY AND GUIDANCE
Your relationship structure isn't the problem.
You don't need someone who treats your relationship style as a symptom. You need someone who can help you figure out what's actually happening underneath — who already knows the difference between a compersion breakthrough and an unprocessed attachment wound.
But your relationship with yourself might need some honesty.
Polyamory and ENM can be deeply fulfilling. They can also surface your most tender wounds — around jealousy, attachment, communication, and worth. And finding a licensed therapist who won't pathologize your structure, project monogamous assumptions onto your dynamics, or quietly suggest you'd be happier if you just "simplified things"? Nearly impossible.
- Transformational mentorship for ENM individuals navigating identity and leadership
- Trauma-informed therapy for underlying mental health conditions
- Kink-aware, consent-focused care
- Attachment, jealousy, and compersion work in real polyam context
- Harm reduction principles, not abstinence mandates
- Clinical support for optimizing how you use, not whether you use
Polyamory-affirming therapy and transformational guidance
MY APPROACH
That respects your autonomy and your complexity
I'm Safrianna Lughna, LCPC. I'm a polyamory and ENM-affirming sex therapist offering online teletherapy throughout Maryland. I am a proud, out member of the polyamory community — not because I took a workshop on it, but because I live it.
Whether you're here for individual clinical therapy, couples or relationship support, or deeper mentorship around identity and self-leadership, I bring trauma-informed approaches that work with your relational structure — not against it.
What that looks like:
Ready to work with a
let's work together
Polyamory-affirming therapist and guide?
Polyamory & ENM affirming care
I want to help you optimize your relationship with cannabis so you can address what's really going on while honoring your choices.
Trauma-informed treatment
Individual therapy sessions
Individual therapy sessions
Telehealth throughout Maryland
Kink-aware approach
I'm Safrianna, a polyamorous and queer-identified trauma therapist and transformational mentor offering online teletherapy throughout Maryland and in-person sessions in Frederick, MD.
I'm a highly specialized trauma therapist who has worked with polyamorous and ENM clients across the entirety of my career. This isn't a niche I developed through training alone — I have lived, embodied experience of this work from the inside.
Safrianna Lughna, LCPC, MS
The Queer-Spirit Guide
- Develop a deeply compassionate relationship with all parts of yourself
- Recognize attachment and trauma patterns creating friction in your dynamics
- Create agreements and boundaries that honor everyone
- Build communication tools that actually work for your specific structures
- Move from relationship chaos or shame into grounded, ethical, fully expressed connection
