You wanted a polyam relationship, but now you wonder if all the extra effort is worth it. You don't want to be abused or taken advantage of, but no one really understands your desires. You’re sick of being judged as a cheater or a freak. 

Being in or desiring an alternative relationship such ethical non-monogamy or polyamory has left you with few people you can talk to who truly understand how to do different relationships well and in a way that is healthy for you and others. These alternative relationship approaches can all be healthy, beautiful ways to explore connection and intimacy. 

If you don't want to give up, I am here... 

I’m Safrianna, a polyamory and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) friendly sex coach. I offer online sessions to clients from many different areas, but I am local to Frederick, MD. I am also a proud member of the polyamory community. While I won’t give unnecessary details or personal experiences in our sessions, I absolutely feel it’s important you know I am a member in solidarity. That means rather than just taking a class on that population (which is still a great thing for people to do!), I have lived and embodied experience of what it may feel like to be a part of those groups. For some people, just knowing that established a bit of rapport between us right out of the gate.

As a kink aware therapist and polyamory specialist, I’ve been working with polyam folx, those involved in a variety of BDSM & kink lifestyles, and open relationships for the entirety of my career. As a coach, I enjoy working with people to ensure they are truly able to delve into this dynamic area in their lives in a safe, sane, and consensual way. I will help you embrace your individuality and sense of self through our coaching sessions. If you are motivated to ensure you’re navigating your relationships ethically and in a way you can thrive, have solid boundaries, and get your needs met all at the same time, I’d love to work with you to push past any anxiety you might be experiencing.

Whether you’re trying to determine if polyamory is right for you or already in a dynamic, I’m happy to guide you through the process of exploring your relationships with yourself and others. Together, we will create excellent boundaries, explore aspects of yourself you might have felt ashamed of, and ensure you’re able to communicate your wants and needs in an open, honest way.

If you’re ready to work with an open-minded poly friendly coach, I invite you to reach out to me today. If you're interested in working with me, you can check out my FAQ to explore more information and schedule a 15-minute free consultation call! I often hear from clients that they've felt misunderstood and unheard in the past by family, peers, or even a prior therapist for aspects of their relationship interests. Let’s do away with that, today!